I was thinking, like I always do, about what I would have liked to be doing instead of doing what I’m doing. Where would I be and so on and so on. This thought led to another and another and soon enough, I was thinking about the gifts that we are all born with and how some of these are extraordinary and unique yet they sit in our mental cupboards, unopened. We are scared to open them as doing so could drastically change our lives the way we knew it. We are influenced by our peers not to open them or we are too shy.
On Christmas morning, parents sit with expectant looks on their faces as they watch their little ones rip at the gift wrappings on their presents. Cameras are cocked and ready to record the looks of excitement and glee on the little ones faces as they see what is inside. Upon opening a much-wanted present, all unwrapping comes to an end as the child is now occupied with that one gift. “Come over here and open the other presents you have under the tree”. Each present is special and without opening each one, the child would never know if there’s one that trumps his now-prized present.
This can be the used to describe our lives. We choose our paths based on financial reasons, popularity, peer pressure or other. We settle on that one gift that make us at least comfortable. We have not explored our other gifts because we feel comfortable ‘settling’ with what we have. Married with kids and a basically comfortable life, we fear rolling the dice could upset our lives and so our gift, our unique talent is left unopened and unexplored.
What is your talent that sits unopened? Life is short, rip it open and see where it takes you.
- What’s your gift? (thundergodblog.wordpress.com)