Why do people use Facebook as their battleground? I have read some statuses that were so disgusting that I was ashamed for the person who wrote it. Seriously folks, why would anyone use Facebook, Twitter or any other social media to attack another? It’s coward and weak. Tell them I said so.
I don’t care who you are, if you use Social Media to sling mud at an old flame or old friend you are feuding with, it’s unclassy. Plain and simple! And there’s a bunch of us ‘classy’ people who think so too. If you have a problem with your ex, please keep it between the two of you. Other than a few gossipers, the rest of us really don’t care to to see your dirty laundry waving in the air.
Last week, one of my Facebook friends who I always thought of as a respectable person, ranted on his status about someone who was apparently giving him grief. His choice of adjectives muddied his intelligence. I was shocked and disappointed. A few days later, another good friend, same thing. His target was a female and he called her the name of a female productive organ. His tirade was laden with such descriptive words. Again I was disappointed by the lack of self-control shown by these people who I thought would know better than to stoop to such a low level and reveal an ignorance previously unseen.
If you feel the urge to berate someone on Facebook, please rethink. It’s actually not cool and you don’t sound tough. Some may say it’s downright pathetic, but it’s my take so I won’t say that. Seriously though, if you can’t say anything nice, say nothing. There’s an old saying attributed to Abraham Lincoln that goes, “Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt.” You have a problem? There’s the ‘unfriend’ button or better yet, use the ‘message’ button and let them know how you feel.
Thanks to Facebook, I now know who my smart friends are.
- Withdrawal From Stupidity (identifyingjohndoe.wordpress.com)