It’s All About Attitude Of Gratitude
An old co-worker always used the term, “It’s all about attitude of gratitude” and I never really grasped the full meaning of it until later. I grew up in the Caribbean and experienced first hand what it was to be poor. Because of this, I grew up very appreciative of whatever small token I was given, whether goods or services. I never fail to express my gratitude. Sometimes I admit that I get carried away and get lost in the thank you’s, repeating it so that the recipient of my gratitude would get the idea that I was honestly grateful. (Thank you is so generic that I often think my sincerity is lost) I sometimes wonder if maybe I should go a bit lighter on the expressions of gratitude so as not to come off as weird. Last week at work for example, I was feeling so thankful for my new job that I had a sudden urge to send a thank you email to the HR lady who hired me. I gave in to that urge and thanked her profusely for the opportunity to work for her company. Yes, I did feel a bit silly afterwards but my heart was in the right place.
Many feel that favors and handouts are owed to them, hence expressing gratitude is not warranted. Wrong attitude. Remember, as my friend said, it’s all about attitude of gratitude. At this Thanksgiving time, take the opportunity to reflect on the things in life that you are truly thankful for. Not the cars and houses but the little things. The job that provides the cars and houses, the HR lady who hired you, the person who holds a door for you, the irritating friend who although irritating, is really a true friend, your family, your spouse, the cashier at your favorite store who does a thankless job of making your day just by being nice. Thank her. So many little and seemingly insignificant people working behind the scene, playing a big role in our existence. Thank you, thank you so much. Really really much. Thank you again, really appreciate all you do. Did I say how grateful I am? Thanks! If you are a Christian, remember to thank the BIG GUY who makes it all possible. Thank you God!
And you, have a Happy Thanksgiving!